chore: version 1.51.0, path-dep the wasm examples, README notes

- socktop, socktop_agent, socktop_connector -> 1.51.0.
- socktop_wasm_test and zellij_socktop_plugin consume the in-repo
  connector via path deps so wasm-feature API drift is caught at PR time
  instead of after publish. Immediately proved out: the wasm requests
  module needed the new sampled_at_ms field, invisible to native builds.
- zellij plugin gains the standalone [workspace] marker (it could not be
  cargo-checked in-tree at all before). NOTE: its lib.rs has pre-existing
  compile errors unrelated to the connector (static mut STATE conflicts
  with register_plugin!, missing BTreeMap import) — needs its own rework,
  out of scope here.
- README: sampled_at_ms in the example payload.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

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+cargo:rustc-cfg=ga_is_deprecated
+cargo:warning=generic-array 0.14 is deprecated; please upgrade to generic-array 1.x

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